You just don't know what it changes into — or whether you're allowed to want something that looks this different from what you have.
You have outgrown it
Your current life does not fit the person you have become — and the ambiguity of not knowing what comes next is quietly exhausting.
You are questioning everything
The school system, where you live, how you work, what you eat. Things you used to take for granted are starting to feel like questions you cannot unask.
You can see the shift coming
The world is changing faster than your life is keeping up with. You do not have a plan. That gap between awareness and action is starting to feel urgent.
You have stopped asking what you want
You are doing everything for everyone else. Somewhere along the way you quietly stopped asking what you actually want — and you are not sure when that happened.
Something unconventional is calling
Travel, downsizing, worldschooling, something. You know it. But fear keeps winning — and you are not sure if the fear is telling you something real or just something old.
You are awake, not broken
You are not burned out. You are not in crisis. You are awake — and you need someone who has actually made the leap to help you figure out what to do with that.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?"
— Mary Oliver
That question has been living in women's chests for years. Most of us were never given permission to answer it honestly.
That's what this work is. Permission — and a plan.
Not a mood board. Not a list of affirmations. A clear picture of what you actually want, what's been keeping you from it, and the specific steps to change it.
Not what you should want. Not what looks good. What would genuinely fit the person you are now — not the person you were when you built this life.
Most women find it's not fear of change. It's the weight of accumulated obligations — expectations, roles, defaults — that were never consciously chosen.
What changes first. What changes later. What the conversation you've been avoiding actually needs to say. A roadmap built for your life, not a template.
"I don't coach people to optimise their cage. I left mine. Now I help others design a life that makes the cage unnecessary."
One is a starting point. The other is the full redesign. Both are right, depending on where you are.
One 90-minute conversation. You arrive with the question that's been sitting with you — the one you can't quite name or can't stop circling. You leave with clarity on what's actually wrong, what needs to change first, and what to do about it.
This is a sense check and a diagnostic, not a coaching programme. If you're not sure whether you need the full redesign — or you just need one honest outside perspective — this is where to start.
90 minutes · One session · No ongoing commitment
Book The Sense Check →Pay via Stripe. Secure checkout. · Prices in GBP (approx. $190). International cards accepted.
Six sessions across 3–4 months. We go from where you are to where you're actually going — with the clarity, the plan, and the support to make it real. This is the work that changes the structure, not just the mood.
Income, location, work, relationships, purpose. We look at all of it — and redesign the parts that no longer fit.
Six sessions · 3–4 months · Investment discussed on your discovery call
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"I have been spinning in circles trying to get my what, why and how for over a year. You, with ease, mapped out my complex system and created structures and new thinking that I need to shine my brilliance into the world."
Rachel Smith
"Lianne helped me see clearly what was actually wrong — not what I thought was wrong. That distinction changed everything. I came in confused and left with a plan I actually believed in."
Jo Van Zyl
In 2021 I was 25 years into a marketing career, burned out, navigating perimenopause, and certain I couldn't keep living the way I was living.
In 2023 I sold most of what we owned, took my three kids out of school, and flew from Cape Town to Southeast Asia. We've been moving ever since — ten countries, completely location-independent, worldschooling on the road.
I'm not standing at a destination telling you it's beautiful. I'm in the middle of the same redesign you're considering — and I know exactly which parts are hard, which fears are real, and which ones dissolve the moment you start moving.
That's who you'd be working with.
No pitch. No pressure. A genuine 30-minute call to look at where you are and whether this is the right kind of help. If it's not, I'll tell you — and point you somewhere better.
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